How Personal Loss Shaped Toucan Law: A Story of Empathy, Care, and the Importance of Estate Planning
My Story
The Importance of a Will: A Lesson Learned the Hard Way
In 2007, I experienced one of the most challenging times of my life. My mother passed away from cancer at the age of just 48. I was 27 years old, and in an instant, my world changed forever. On top of the overwhelming grief and heartache of losing her, I found myself in a position I had never anticipated: becoming the primary caregiver for my 11-year-old sister and taking on responsibilities that no one should have to face without guidance and support.
My mother, like many, hadn’t made a will. This meant that I was left to navigate the complex, confusing, and often overwhelming process of managing her estate and arranging her funeral without any clear instructions on what she would have wanted. All I wanted was to honour her memory and ensure that her wishes were respected, but the lack of a will made that incredibly difficult.
Thankfully, I had been working within the Wills and Probate profession since 1998 and so at least I understood the legal complexities and the importance of having a will.
However, even with nearly a decade of experience, nothing could have prepared me for the emotional and practical challenges of managing my mother’s estate.
Without a will, I had to make decisions that I wasn't prepared for. From planning her funeral to managing her assets and ensuring my sister's wellbeing, every step was fraught with uncertainty and fear of not getting it right. It was an agonising experience, trying to do what I thought my mum would have wanted, without having her guidance or a written document to direct me.
This personal loss and the challenges that followed taught me a profound lesson about the importance of estate planning. A will isn’t just a legal document; it’s a way to provide comfort and clarity to those left behind. It allows loved ones to focus on grieving and healing, rather than being burdened by complicated legal and financial decisions.
How My Experience Shapes Toucan Law
Toucan Law was founded on the principles of empathy, integrity, and care—values that were forged in the crucible of my own experiences. I know firsthand the pain and confusion that can arise from not having a plan in place, and that’s why I’m passionate about helping others navigate these difficult waters.
At Toucan Law, our goal is to provide more than just legal services; we offer guidance, support, and compassion.
We understand that estate planning isn’t just about distributing assets—it’s about ensuring your wishes are honored and your loved ones are taken care of when they need it most.
Whether it’s drafting a will, setting up trusts, or providing advice on how to protect your family’s future, we approach each case with the sensitivity and respect it deserves. We know that these conversations can be tough, but they are crucial to providing peace of mind for both you and your family.
Why We Do What We Do
Estate planning can be a difficult topic to discuss, and it’s something many people put off because it feels uncomfortable or unnecessary. But my experience showed me just how vital it is to have these plans in place. It’s not just about legalities; it’s about love and responsibility.
My mission at Toucan Law is to make this process as straightforward and compassionate as possible. I want to help families avoid the uncertainty and stress that I went through, to make sure that no one else has to face those same challenges alone.
Planning for the Future with Integrity, Kindness, and Care
I believe that everyone deserves the peace of mind that comes with knowing their affairs are in order and their loved ones are protected. Estate planning is an act of kindness and love for those we leave behind. It’s about taking control of your future and ensuring that, no matter what happens, your family won’t be left in a state of confusion or distress.
At Toucan Law, we’re here to help you take those important steps with integrity, kindness, and care. Whether you’re just starting to think about a will, or need guidance on more complex estate planning issues, we’re here to support you every step of the way.
Because for me, this isn’t just a profession—it’s personal.
